It may seem backwards—but often, the first step in healing is to help the body feel like healing is possible. Before tissue regenerates, hormones rebalance, or prolapse improves, we need to shift the internal state that’s governing those systems. And that begins with perception.

Your nervous system isn’t just reacting to the world around you—it’s constantly scanning for cues of safety or threat. When it perceives threat (even subtly: a sense of being broken, overwhelmed by symptoms, or stuck in fear), it stays in survival mode. Blood flow is redirected away from healing, breath becomes shallow, fascia tightens, and energy is spent on defence, not repair.

But when we create moments where the body feels safe—even briefly—something changes. The vagus nerve responds. Breath deepens. Fascia softens. The system downshifts from protection to possibility. It’s in this state that healing can truly begin.

The Link Between Mindset and Healing

Just as this exercise demonstrates, we can actively "melt" negative thoughts by redirecting our focus. When we start to spiral into self-doubt, stress, or negativity, having a mental "store" of positive, calming images can help shift our mindset. With practice, this can rewire our thought patterns and create an environment that promotes healing at the cellular level.

This isn’t just a feel-good idea; science backs it up. Our thoughts and emotions have a profound effect on our autonomic nervous system, which governs processes like digestion, heart rate, and even the healing of tissues. By choosing positive thoughts, we encourage the release of beneficial hormones and chemicals, such as serotonin and oxytocin, that can boost physical and emotional recovery.